Overweight children need love, support, and encouragement from their parents. An overweight child probably knows better than anyone else that he or she has a weight problem.
Focus on the positive qualities of your child. NEVER focus on the weight of your child.
Try not to treat your child differently if he or she is overweight. Instead, focus on gradually changing the physical activities and eating habits of your family.
Be a good role model for your child. If your child sees you enjoying healthy foods and regular physical activities, he or she is more likely to do the same now and for the rest of his or her life.
Realize that an appropriate goal for many overweight children is to maintain their current weight while growing normally in height. They do not necessarily need to lose weight.
HOW TO LOSE WEIGHT:
*Decreasing calories-in: meaning eat fewer calories, or
*Increasing calories-out: meaning burn more calories, or
*Ideally, a combination of both.
WEIGHT MANAGEMENT GOALS:
The first goal of weight management in children and teenagers should be to stop weight gain and maintain normal growth in height. This way they can GROW INTO their weight. To start, have your child eat healthier and begin a program of regular exercise and physical activity.
Once your child has stopped gaining weight and is on a regular program of dieting and exercising, you can set further goals of slow weight loss, if necessary. However, do so cautiously.
BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION:
It is important to modify the behaviors that have caused your child to become overweight and prevent weight loss. Listed below are some helpful tips:
TELEVISION/VIDEO GAMES, ETC: You should limit television viewing to about one or two hours each day. Remember, this includes playing video games and using the computer. These pastimes encourage lack of exercise.
SNACKS: You should limit snacks to two healthy snacks each day such as raw fruits or vegetables. Avoid using high calorie or high fat foods for snacks, especially chips, cookies, etc.
DRINKS: You should encourage your child to drink four to six glasses of water each day, especially before meals. Water has no calories and it will help you to feel full. Other drinks can include diet sodas and lowfat milk. Avoid letting your child drink regular soft drinks or bottled fruit juices, as they are high in calories (150-170 calories per serving).
JOURNAL: If you think it helps your child to improve his eating habits, (sometimes it does not) encourage him to keep a weekly journal of food and beverage intake. You should definitely encourage a teenager to keep track of the amount of time he spends watching television, playing video games and exercising. You might also record your child's weight once a week.
FOOD LABELS: It is not necessary to count calories but you and your child should become more educated about the foods you eat and how many calories they contain. You should get into the habit of checking the nutrition label of the foods your family is eating. You want to try and eat foods low in calories and also low in fat. Be careful of many low fat or so-called diet foods as they can be high in calories even though they are low in fat.
FOOD SERVING SIZES: Begin checking the serving size of prepared meals and snacks. A bag of chips might only have 200 calories, but the serving size may only be 10 chips.
EATING HABITS:
HEALTHY MEALS: Your child should eat three well-balanced meals of average size each day. Serve fewer fatty foods. It is best to prepare foods that are baked, broiled or steamed, rather than fried. In addition to a small serving of lean protein, provide large servings of vegetables.
SINGLE SERVINGS: Avoid serving seconds of the main course or dessert. You can eat more salad or other vegetables if still hungry.
DESSERTS: Serve fresh fruit as a dessert. Avoid frequent eating of ice cream or cake or other high calorie foods.
GROCERY SHOPPING: Buy low-calorie and low-fat meals, snacks and deserts, and buy low fat or skim milk and diet drinks. Avoid buying high calorie desserts or snacks such as chips, regular soft drinks or regular ice cream.
EAT AT THE TABLE: Avoid letting your child eat meals or snacks outside of the kitchen or dining room. Discourage eating while watching TV.
REDUCE FAST FOOD: You should limit how often you allow your children to eat fast food, as it is usually high in fat and calories.
EXERCISE SUGGESTIONS:
Be physically active. Adults should have at least 30 minutes of exercise most days. Children or teens should have at least 60 minutes each day.
Even greater amounts of physical activity may be necessary for the prevention of weight gain, for weight loss, or for sustaining weight loss. Plan family activities that provide everyone with exercise and enjoyment.
Provide a safe environment for your children and their friends to play actively. Encourage swimming, biking, skating, ball sports, and other fun activities.
HEALTHY EATING SUGGESTIONS:
*Follow the dietary guidelines for healthy eating.
*Guide the choices for your family rather than dictate foods.
*Encourage your child to eat when hungry and to eat slowly.
*Eat meals together as a family as often as possible.
*Carefully cut down on the amount of fat and calories in the eating plan your family follows.
*Do not place your child on a restrictive diet.
*Avoid the use of food as a reward.
*Avoid withholding food as punishment.
*Plan for healthy snacks. Stock the refrigerator with fat-free or low-fat milk, fresh fruit, and vegetables instead of soft drinks or snacks that are high in fat, calories, or added sugars and low in essential nutrients.
*Aim to eat at least 5 servings of fruits and vegetables each day.
*Eating a healthy breakfast is a good way to start the day and may be important in achieving and maintaining a healthy weight.
IF YOUR CHILD OR TEENAGER IS OVERWEIGHT:
The diet for you child should be safe and nutritious. It should include all of the Recommended Dietary Allowances for vitamins, minerals, and protein and contain the foods from the major Food Guide Pyramid groups. Any weight-loss diet should be low in calories ONLY, not in essential nutrients.
Even with extremely overweight children, weight loss should be gradual. Crash diets and diet pills can compromise growth and are not recommended by health care professionals. Your child's physician should supervise any diet program.
Weight lost during a diet is frequently regained unless children are motivated to change their eating habits and activity levels for a lifetime. Weight control must be considered a lifelong effort. As a parent, you must work with your children to help them achieve a healthy lifestyle.